Just because you don’t choose to see the beauty in someone, it doesn’t make them ugly . Short, tall , black ,white,gay,bisexual talkative,introvert,quiet,annoying whatever she is it makes her beautiful... Being beautiful on the inner side is attractive.. Just because you call her ugly , it doesn’t define her intelligence and beauty, her words can take your breath away, her smile can make you weak ,her pretty eyes can be a mirror of your reflection, her walk can sway you away , her hug can be a blanket large enough for you to snuggle into ocean of warm limitless love. Why can’t we judge beauty qualitatively rather than judging it based upon outer shell ... why can’t it be the courage, sweetness, kindness generosity, sense of humour as the parameters.... whatever she wears be it madness to the little black dress it makes her own kind of beautiful . .. . #igwritersclub #wordstar #wordpress #wordpower #wordsofwisdom #wordstar #instagood #instagramwriters #writingprompts #poemsporn #poemsofinstagram #quotestoliveby #instagrampoetry #story #instagramwriters #voice #beauty #ugly #love #beautiful #selflove
・・・ Emotional intelligence. . A work in progress for me but the last three months I have shaped this mentality in such an intense way. Taking things personally can be such a knee jerk reaction when you are dominated by emotions which most of us are UNLESS we actively observe our minds and do the work necessary to recognize understand and then change our patterns of behavior. Self analysis. . The more I observe myself the more I understand others and the less I take things personally. I truly have shifted my mentality on the way people treat me because I now see the pain in their words or actions before I feed into and feel the emotions connected to whatever it is they are saying or doing that ‘hurts’ me. I don’t get personal about the hurt because if someone is able to hurt another person, that means they are hurting on the inside WAY more than whatever they were projecting onto me. And it really has NOTHING to do with me! And that’s what it is- an expressive projection of their inner world. It can be VERY dark. It’s sad to see your friends or family in such pain.. however suffering is a choice.. and everyone is responsible for themselves. You are responsible for YOU. . Keep focus on yourself and keep working on YOUR mind. The more you begin to grow outside of the mindless patterns of reaction and expand beyond limitations of ‘emotion’ in yourself the clearer everyone else’s robotic projections will become and the less and less it will effect you, your heart, your mind, your life, your peace, your happiness. . It’s an incredible shift to realize no one has the power to hurt you anymore. “I’m sorry you’re hurting” is a powerful response to someone trying to break you with words... recognizing and really meaning that in response is even more powerful. look deeper.. observe yourself. you’ll see it.. . #behaviormanagement #behavioranalysis #mindfulness #behaviorpatterns #behavior #innerpeace #vortex #canthurtme #nomore #mindfulnessquotes #innerpain #pain #suffering #fearleadstoangerangerleadstohatehateleadstosuffering #yoda #yogibhajan #wordsofwisdom #love #quotes #inspirationalquotes #emotionalintelligence
If have learned anything in life, it is that you won't ever be ready for what life throws at you. You wont have the right words when it counts ; you won't Know what to choose when fate itself is staring you down. But now you know you don't always need to have the right answers. You have to learn to go on with or without something you thought you won't be able to survive. Bravely accept the fact that you can't keep your heart safe anymore than you can stop love to take everything from you. And that you have to stop saying yes when you don't mean it - to live as authentically as you know how. To allow to see through the darkness even when it becomes difficult. And as one door opens and another door closes, you have a your life ahead of you to move forward with the knowledge that unlike so many other, you have another shot at making it all the way around the sun and a chance to get it right this time round.. Hope we all realize and embrace new chances at happiness in the year ahead .😊❤️ . . . . . . #wordsofwisdom #wordporn #words #wordoftheday #writerscommunityofinstagram #writingprompts #writersofinstagram #wordpress #writingcommunity #igwriters #bossbabe #bosslady #ig #quotes #life #love #newyear #2019 #2019goals #best #love #mumbai #india #entreprnuer
As we approach the December Solstice, the Moon connects us with our intuitive gifts. The theme is I imagine, the archetype is The Dreamer, the mentor is Lilith and the Hebrew letter Kuf.
When I took this picture, I envisioned self-love. Love that is big, stable, & holds strong amongst the chaos. . . Self-love is different for each person. I will say that it’s helpful when it’s filled with awareness, self-care, & acceptance - all fundamentals for self-love to me! 😘 . . What do you need for your self-love? Are you consistent? My encouragement to you: Take an inventory of what you need (awareness), what makes you feel good and decompress you (self care), & what you need to work on being comfortable with (acceptance). 💙
“Sometimes people are as terrible as you think they are. If you can’t handle reality, you should’ve stayed inside of mom.” Any advice I pass on to my nephew was likely taken from Louise Belcher on Bob’s Burgers. Everyone knows she’s a genius.
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“You own your misery, but publish it and billions are co-owners.” Jenean McBrearty, WRITING BEYOND THE SELF. Be yourself at Vine Leaves Press: bit.ly/VineLeavesPressBooks
"You will enrich your life immeasurably if you approach it with a sense of wonder and discovery, and always challenge yourself to try new things." - Nate Berkus . 🌎 Thanks @serengetee
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One of my favorite moments of that year 2018 💛 . Middle of nowhere, in the beautiful nature with the fam. Just perfect 💛 . 'Life advice: Always be the best person you can be. Be kind even when you’re tired. Be understanding even when you’re angry. Do more than you’re asked, and don’t ask for anything in return. Don’t silently expect anything either. Listen when someone talks, and really listen too, stop just thinking of how you’ll reply. Tell people that you love them and that you appreciate them. Go out of your way to do things for people. Be the greatest person you can possibly be and when you mess up, make up for it in the next moment or minute or day. One thing you should never do? Never spend your time trying to prove to anybody that you’re great, your actions will speak for themselves and we only have limited time on this earth, don’t waste it. If someone doesn’t see your light, don’t worry. Good people are attracted to flame and to light, and they will come.' ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨ . Best words for this end of the year. That world needs more heart and soul, love and kindness. More light, and you can be that 💛✨ .
"See, self discovery isn’t this comfortable, miraculous thing. It can get ugly, it can get confusing. It’s gritty, it’s hard. It’s difficult to confront yourself sometimes, it’s difficult to be the person who does things differently, who doesn’t settle. But it’s the greatest gift you will ever give yourself. It will push you towards figuring out what your own personal version of happiness looks like; and when you grow on your own terms, when you figure out what actually matters to you, and when you carve out your own path, you live on your own terms. You love on your own terms. You become the person you have always wanted to be, rather than the person you were always told to be, and that is beautiful. Because when it comes down to it —life is about making yourself proud on your own terms. It’s about finding a happiness that works for you." . PREACH. 💛 Be like yourself, that will be amazing ✨ . I wish you a great day 💚💛 .
"You're going to realize it one day — that happiness was never about your job, or your degree, or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you, it was never about being like the others. One day, you’re going to see it that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was always about embracing the person you were becoming. One day, you will understand. That happiness was always about learning how to live with yourself, that happiness was never in the hands of other people. It was always about you, It was always about you." . Maybe you need that words today, so I share it with you. Happiness is yours, your happiness doesn't have to look like theirs, your happiness is just yours. ♥️ . I wish you a great sunday and be in the great mindset to start the week ahead 💛✨ .